I'm Ready To Have My First Experience With A Woman. Now What?

I'm Ready To Have My First Experience With A Woman. Now What?

Written by Briana Belfort  •  @statusfemme

 

 

Women are amazing.

   As if it isn't enough that we exist, we actually are very pleasant beings that make life a lot more beautiful. Not to sound like a stale feminist of the sort, just pointing out what I feel is obvious. 

   A dress means nothing without a beautiful woman in it. A lot of fashion, music, and art are driven by the goal to either seduce or attain women. We are the apple of the world's eye and the world's muse.

   I can wholeheartedly say that I love women and am even experiencing my first girl crush. This is odd for me because not only did I grow up very much attracted to men, but I also grew up in a very Christian household. Dating the same sex, no matter if accepted at the surface, is viewed as problematic when raised religiously.

   I chose to write about this because for some reason it seems taboo... as if I need to be full fledged lesbian or even bisexual to appreciate a woman romantically.

   I've found the truth to be, that more women need to spend time questioning why they even have a girl crush in the first place. For me, my girl crush is fierce, sexy, and unashamed of her sexual prowess. I mean, the woman is bad ass and completely the opposite of my shy, good girl appearance. Years ago, this would've been the girl I hated; jealous of her confidence and power. These days I revere women who are bold enough to live out loud. 

   I encourage all women with a girl crush or longing for a deep connection with a woman to just go for it. Ask yourself what it is about her that's captivated you, as well as what it is about her that you want to embody. It could be the start of a beautiful friendship if you open your mind to your needs.
   The deeper you dive the more normal it will seem to you, as you realize all you really long for is understanding. 
Briana is a graphic designer, author, style maven, and owner of level-up lifestyle site Status Femme.
 

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